The meeting with my twin flame

The meeting with my Twin Flame

🔥 The meeting with my Twin Flame brought me here 🔥

This post is going to be deeply personal and vulnerable for me, as it revolves around the very reason I’m doing what I am today: living my life’s purpose. It all began in 2021 when I met my Twin Flame, or “TF” as it is abbreviated.

I’ve been hearing a lot about the Twin Flame concept lately (perhaps because I’m now “in the scene” 😉 ). Let me be clear, though, contrary to what some influential figures may portray, the TF journey is no fairy tale or romantic movie with a happily-ever-after ending. It’s about the profound journey of self-discovery. It’s different from meeting a soul mate, as a soul mate doesn’t trigger the same transformative change. Instead, a soul mate offers support and an easier connection.

In essence, it’s more fitting to speak of a Twin Soul than Twin Flames. This journey isn’t just about the ultimate love story; it’s about the mirror it holds up to you. Just imagine meeting your identical twin later in life, unaware of their existence… It would leave you puzzled, right? In the case of Twin Flames, your souls recognize each other instantly, there’s a sense of happiness and excitement, but your body and mind struggle to catch up. It’s odd and inexplicable, yet it’s undeniably there.

Initially, you feel exhilarated and drawn to spend time together, but then something separates you. One person becomes afraid of the life-altering implications, avoiding what’s being triggered within them out of fear. It’s worth noting that these divine meetings often occur at the most inconvenient times, forcing you to question your life’s direction. The other person is left bewildered by the sudden withdrawal, with no rational explanation. And yes, I was this person, wondering what happened here?!?

For over a month that year, I thought I was losing my mind. I even started searching for information about mental illness. When I discovered that others had experienced similar feelings and circumstances, and it had a name, “Twin Flames,” things started falling into place.

Every action from another person towards you is a reflection of yourself, can be seen as a lesson to be learned. But nothing is as impactful as what your Twin Flame reflects. They are here to teach you precisely what you need to learn or let go of. It’s essential to clarify that this should never (!) involve an abusive relationship, and no one should tolerate such behavior. A true Twin Flame will not intentionally hurt the other, as it would hurt themselves indirectly.

On the TF journey, you still have free will. You can choose to embrace it, develop yourself into your true core self, align with your soul and purpose, or you can ignore the call and continue, feeling that something is amiss, living at a different frequency. It’s like playing music on an out-of-tune piano; it’s music, but it doesn’t feel quite right, it might even be awful. Do you continue to play, or do you invest the time and effort to tune it perfectly?

Meeting my twin flame

Meeting my Twin Flame and experiencing their sudden withdrawal triggered deep-seated beliefs I had acquired during my upbringing, such as “people don’t listen to me when I have an important message to share” (which I’m still working on). It brought other self-limiting beliefs to the surface, which I recognized and released. This roller coaster of inner transformation happened in a remarkably short period, feeling like a whirlwind!

In summary, after meeting my Twin Flame, I changed jobs, went through a divorce, moved houses twice, began my Life Coach education, started my own business, and delved deep into inner work, often referred to as ‘doing shadow work’ in the spiritual realm. This included experiencing ‘Dark Nights of the Soul’ (DNOTs). I’ve learned so much during this time and have become an expert.

For those who haven’t experienced this journey, which is likely more than 95% of the population, it may sound strange, unimaginable, or even like woo-woo. I would have agreed with you two years ago. I’m originally a scientist with over 20 years of experience in IT, and I value logic. However, having gone through this experience and delved deeply into the subject, it now makes sense to me.

My roller coaster life is currently in a state of less turmoil. I’ve mastered my thoughts and emotions, recognizing the interconnectedness in my life, the world, and the universe. This has led to profound insights and happiness. I maintain a positive outlook on everything, am grateful for my TF journey, and take immense pride in me completing this ’training period’ with grace.

The purpose of meeting my counterpart was to spiritually awaken me. Now, I’m 100% analytical AND 100% spiritual. I can engage in conversations on any level, from ‘no bullsh*t’ to some degree of ‘woo-woo.’ However, I’m not into meditation, soft music, or yoga. Instead, I listen to my intuition during quiet moments—on my bike to work, in the car, while walking, and especially while listening to music (not necessarily spiritual music, just Top-40 hits 😉 ). I like to keep things grounded even when communicating with the ‘Divine.’

From capterpillar to beautiful butterfly

I’m now living my life’s purpose and calling, which involves helping others overcome their limiting beliefs, feelings of unworthiness, whether in their personal lives or related to their work and relationships (both romantic and familial).

So, this is me today. If you’ve known me for more than two years, I’m still the same person to you, but internally, I’ve undergone a profound transformation. I was once a caterpillar, but I went through a cocoon phase for two years and emerged as the most beautiful butterfly you can imagine 🦋 . I live in constant gratitude for what surrounds me 🙏 , and I feel unconditional love ❤ for everyone and everything. I want to share this with others, I need to, I feel the urge….

I want to teach you how to “fly” like me, to live your purpose without necessarily going through the challenging phase of meeting your Twin Flame or experiencing other significant life events before choosing to live your life on your terms, instead of conforming to others’ standards like we have learned to do (the voice of your parents, your community, your religion, etc.).

Do you feel like your life isn’t aligning with your true self? Do you have the urge to change but lack the courage or knowledge? Do you want my guidance? Are you curious about my transformation? Do you want to learn how to speak positively about yourself and to yourself? Please reach out to me through a DM or leave a comment.

If you’ve read my story and want to show me your support, please give this post a ‘like’ 👍 ❤ and leave a short comment below. Your support not only means the world to me but also helps spread this message to those who truly need it.

Thank you!

For those interested in learning more about Twin Flames, here’s a good article: [Twin Flames: Meeting Later in Life